~#~ I Have Learned 我终于了解 ~#~

I've learned~
that you cannot make someone love you
All you can do is be someone who can be loved
The rest is up to them.

I've learned~
that no matter how much I care
some people just don't care back.

I've learned~
that it takes years to build up trust
and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned~
that it's not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned~
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes
After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned~
that you shouldn't compare
yourself to the best others can do
but to the best you can do.

I've learned~
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned~
that it's not what happens to people that's important.
It's what they do about it.

I've learned~
that no matter how thin you slice it
there are always two sides.

I've learned~
that it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.